so...the catch is... even before you marry, you Are a Wife... before... you marry! Therefore, as you go from childhood, the natural rythm of life is that girls are nurtured to be wives, and are found by men. The man pursues, and the woman chooses. Really. The Scripture says, "He who finds: a wife--finds what is good,"...so did our wife material qualities come before or after the wedding according to this Scripture? You got it girl,
So investigate: wife, Be That, and your man will have found what is good. Your lives will be blessed, becuase he then recieves favor from the Lord.