top of page

What options are available for someone in a toxic marriage where one spouse refuses therapy but expects the other spouse to fix their problems?

ameenablogs answers:


Beloved, it takes 2 to Tango. The theory behind relationship is that “we go to gether”. Every party must be willing to humble themselves, yield to the other partner and work on themselves. All of us stand the need for improvement. We all can do better in relationships. Peace and Love to you. In regards to your options, all that any of us can do is continue to work on and be the best versions of ourselves. Never allow anything to sour that part of your character. You cannot make any adult do or be anything beyond their will. Don't give up but just focus on being the best you, and I know from experience beloved, that you are strong and creative enough to make lemonade out of lemons. Love your enemy. Many of us have partners that for whatever reason, just can't see themselves as they are, yet that is no excuse to not continue your personal growth journey. We are all individuals and my personal success DOES NOT depend on another. Living life in this type of prison is unhealthy for anyone. Be patient. Commitment, loyalty requires long suffering and perseverance. Prepare for the worst at the same time of expecting the best. Even if your partner Never comes around, at least you kept your smile, your personal peace, and chose joy and to enjoy this journey, even in the face of being with someone who chose otherwise. No one said that life was perfect or even that people would do what we always want them to. Who said things have to go our way… but in the end beloved, these are the qualities that will make you a hero… defining the hero in YOU. Subscribe to my space beloved 💝.


9 views0 comments

Recent Posts

See All

Comments


bottom of page